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Disclosures from family

If a parent or carer is concerned that their child may be self-harming, it's important to reassure them that the school will work with their family to support them

If a parent discloses that their child or another child in the school is self-harming, it’s important that the parent is supported by the school.

In this situation, you will need to:

  • Remain calm.
  • Reassure the parent that you are taking the matter seriously
  • Explain the next steps and let them know you will follow appropriate policies and safeguarding procedures.
  • Try and get as much information as possible.
  • Share your school’s self-harm guidelines as well as details of support services and ways in which the school can support parents.
  • Keep the parents informed and updated with what’s happening.
  • Follow-up with an email/letter.
  • Document all conversations.
Recommendation
Ask parent/carers how they are feeling and what impact this situation had on them. If they need support, then make sure that this is followed-up.